After having a lecture/class in Phycology today,we discussed about the Motivation ..So rather than me fully explain every single aspect of this.I will just get to the point..1 thing struck in particular when a certain friend of mine..proposed an idea..An idea which I felt personally which is true but at the same im am sure many would disagree at the same time..while we discussing about Will & Ambition
The idea is..
”It’s a positive & negative feedback upon the”
influence of people on his/her decision in
life..
True..indeed if a person where to make his/her decision merely on his believe..it would be wise to listen & respect other peoples opinion but at the same time..the more we depended on people’s opinion..the more we lose our identity,who we are & what makes us special
..Yes,many of us never noticed this..When we have the idea..the choice,within that small period of time just by influence..that idea manifest itself to suite other people’s need…but not for ourselves.When the individual realizes it,it maybe too late.By that time..their just merely…no offense…Puppets and the other people around him are the Puppet Masters. Every movement,desire,will is controlled by the master..
So my point is that…if so called God gave us the mind to think for ourselves…than I say…START USING THEM…Don’t let people govern your decision..Have the will to be who you are!!Never changed yourself for the sake of others..but for the sake of yourself..call me selfish but these are who we are..We are independent species so stop being dependent!!..Regardless our decision maybe for greater good or for the worst… but at least…
we maintain our,self-respect,self-esteem but mostly..we maintain
our dignity & honor as to that WE ARE WHO WE ARE!
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